Do couples need to have a close or evenly matched IQ for their relationship to work?

Love has very little to do with similar IQs as long as there is some similarity in intelligence. When 2 people meet, they do not calculate how close their IQs are, they just consider their compatibility and liking for each other and if they are roughly on a similar wavelength. Machines work, relationships don't 'work'. Do you care for that person? Does that person care for you? Although IQ might be useful in determining whether someone can do a job or follow an educational course, it is just a number with about as much relevance as the number of leaves on a tree.Do couples need to have a close or evenly matched IQ for their relationship to work?
First, understand that depending on what test you take, you will have a different score. One maxes out at around 140 and another at 150.





Second, IQ is comparable to luggage size. A person with an IQ of 138 may have a larger ';bag'; than a person with an IQ of 108. Yet, the person with the lower IQ may have more ';items'; in their ';bag';.





Finally, most people who have had a professional IQ test administered by a Psychologist, did so during their childhood. Some may discover that if they were to retest as an adult, the score would be substantially lower.





';Some factions believe that modern education has become more geared toward IQ tests, thus rendering higher scores, but not necessarily higher intelligence';(Mingroni, Michael A. (2007), Resolving the IQ Paradox: Heterosis as a Cause of the Flynn Effect and Other Trends, pp. 806鈥?29)





What you need to make a relationship work is to be a good business person ;) A good working relationship involves constant negotiation. You must be willing to give as well as receive. Be willing to forgive the little things %26amp; choose your battles wisely. Make sure to set time aside for just the two of you. Also be a good listener as well as a good communicator. Thats what is important.Do couples need to have a close or evenly matched IQ for their relationship to work?
I'm going to go out on a limb here and disagree with everyone else; I think you do.





Not necessarily IQ's -and that, I think, is where everyone is getting caught up- but definitely in overall intelligence/mental capacity. A really bright man/woman simply isn't going to click with a member of the opposite sex that isn't at least within the same range of intelligence that they are.
not necessarily -but if there is a wide difference it helps if each one has time outside the relationship with their peer group.
nope but you don't want to have to spend a lot of time with someone who is really stupid or someone far to smart cuz aether way it will get boring talking to them
generally speaking yes but it's not carved in stone
nope...life does not revolve around iq's .. we tend to rely on experience and wisdom as we age

Questions Couples Can Ask Each Other?

I play this game lately with my long-time boyfriend where we go back and forth asking each other cute/naughty/deep questions and we're totally running out of questions to ask each other about relationships/sex/pasts.


can you suggest a few unique and/or interesting ones maybe?


we are both over 23, so don't worry about our precious virgin eyes and ears haha.Questions Couples Can Ask Each Other?
Google has many if you do a quick search, but since I'm still young, I don't want to ruin my 'precious virgin eyes'. Haha, I love that, but anyways, these are some of my favorites from truth or dare that I play with my girls:





What question do you not want to be asked?


(Next round, ask that question).





If you could go back and take back something you said to an ex, a friend, or a family member, what would it be?





What is the craziest thing you have ever done with the same sex? Opposite sex? Would you rather tell this to your mom or grandma?





If you could have me or one million dollars (in cash), which would you pick? (You may not want to answer... experience).





If you could do anything to me right now, what would you do?





(Similar to last question) Would you rather [insert last question's answer here] to me or Megan Fox (or any other hot girl)?





I hope this helps and have fun! %26lt;3

What is a good sweet love song that couples could listen ?

Is there a good r%26amp;b hip-hop or rap love song that me and my boyfriend could listen to to think each other when we cant see each other.hes 17 and im 16.he wanted me to ask so if anyone could help that would be great.What is a good sweet love song that couples could listen ?
anything by al green or stevie wonderWhat is a good sweet love song that couples could listen ?
The bad touch by the bloodhound gang
I like Chris Brown. He has his whole album complete for young couples. All of his songs are sweet for ages 14-19.
I say Akon's love songs.. Beyonce love songs.

Why is it necessary for all married Chinese couples to hold wedding banquets?

custom and cultureWhy is it necessary for all married Chinese couples to hold wedding banquets?
It is not a necessity to hold wedding banquets, you don't have to if you don't want to. Traditionally, marriage is a big thing to Chinese people/culture, and happens only once in a life time. (Chinese very rarely seen divorced, even if marriage goes horribly wrong) Wedding banquets also lets you reap in money for a newly wed, via money gifts from parents, relatives, and whoever you invite, and the money is used to set up the life for the newly weds. (It is often the case that you make a profit for a wedding from all the money you get from gifts than to open a banquet) Nowadays, you can just go to a marriage court and get pronounced husband and wife without having to worry about banquet, and get divorced that way as well.Why is it necessary for all married Chinese couples to hold wedding banquets?
although i am not chinese, my nationality is vietnamese. and whenever someone gets married in our culture we also have a big feast. it is more about traditions and long time customs but i think it's more of a way to bless the newlywed couples. they have a festive feast to send them off on their way towards their marriage. but before the feast takes place there is a ceremony held at either the bride or groom's house to give their parent's blessings to each other and to pray to their ancestors so they can have a successful life and marriage.

Does anyone have any good ideas for couples halloween costumes?

Gypsy and Matador





Adam and Eve





Anthony and Cleopatra





Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky





Bogie and Lauren Bacall





Caesar and Cleopatra





Clark Gable and Carole Lombard





George and Martha Washington





Henry VIII and Anne Boleyn





Jack and Jackie Kennedy





Mae West and W.C. Fields





Napoleon and Josephine





Aragorn and Arwen





Bombadil and Goldberry





Celeborn and Galadriel





Dracula and a Pale Woman with Fang Marks





Eowyn and Faramir





Hagrid and Norbert the Dragon





Hansel and Gretel





Harry Potter and Hermione





Jack and Jill





Little Red Riding Hood and the Big Bad Wolf





Molly and Arthur Weasley





Peter the Pumpkin Eater (orange paint around face, wearing knickers and a top hat) and Wife in Pumpkin Outfit ~~ contributed by Jenn P.





Romeo and Juliet





Scarlett O'Hara and Rhett Butler





Tarzan and Jane





Uncle Sam and Miss Liberty





Winky and DobbyDoes anyone have any good ideas for couples halloween costumes?
You could do like a 70's type of couples outfit or you could dress up like you're getting married.Does anyone have any good ideas for couples halloween costumes?
Compassionate, Wise King and Queen of the world!
The best couples costumes Ive seen were a nurse and her patient...they did it right ....bandages ...slings..stethoscopes ..the white shoes..they looked real.
Yes, Go naked and pretend to be invisable.
How about Dr. Jekyll and Mr./Mrs. Hyde?
Louis and Claudia from Interview With A Vampire!!!
A bee and a ladybug or butterfly? A pirate and a wench?
depends on appropriateness, but i saw one of a penis and vagina Looked pretty funny.
How about going as a priest and a pregnant nun. A couple of my friends did that one year. They even borrowed the outfits from the clergy of the local Catholic church. The priest and nun thought it was an hilarious idea.
1- Neo %26amp; Trinity (Matrix)


2- Sub-Zero %26amp; Princess Kitana (Mortal Kombat)


3- Spiderman %26amp; Mary Jane Watson (Spiderman)


4- Batman %26amp; Catwoman (Batman)


5- Mr. Playboy, Ms Bunny (Playboy)


6- Wolverine %26amp; Jean Grey (X-Men)


7- Mr. Incredible %26amp; Elastigirl (Incredibles)


8- Zoro, Joaqu铆n Murrieta (Zoro)


9- Dracula %26amp; The Victim Girl (Dracula)
Romeo And juliet,


or, Danny and Sandy From Greese! That would be fun!


Or Dog and cat.


or butterfly. One person is one wing and together you unite.


Or, or, or yin and yang! That'd be awesome!
Frankenstein and his bride - let the guy be the bride....
From CostumZee:





# Gomez and Morticia Addams


# Ozzy and Sharon Osbourne of the Osbournes - though Kelly Osbourne would be more fun than Sharon


# Batman and Catwoman or BatGirl


# Superman and Supergirl - Wonder Woman


# Ceasar and Cleopatra


# Bonie and Clyde


# Dracula and Vampira


# The Incredibles - great if you have kids. Go as the whole family.


# Chicago Gangsters


# CSI Agents


# Danny and Sandra Dee from Grease


# A pair of Pirates or a Pirate and Wench


# Hugh Heffner and a playboy bunny


# Dog and Beth - The Bounty Hunter TV show


# Ginger Rogers and Fred Astaire


# Fred and Wilma Flintstone


# George and Jayne Jetson


# Popeye and Olive Oyl


# Romeo and Juliet


# John Lennon and Yoko-Ono


# Sony and Cher


# JFK and Jackie Onassis


# Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky


# Pegg and Al Bundy (from Married with Children)


# Austin Powers and Foxxy Cleopatra or Felicity Shagwell
One year my dad and his girlfriend dressed up as that old farm couple painting - you know the one with the pitch fork? She had a gray wig pulled back and my dad is bald and they carried around a big frame for the evening! They won first prize for costumes!


Or Homer and Marge? Or Al and Peggy? Or a pig and a blanket , just thought of that one!


Or maybe Bin Laden and Bush holding hands and stuff and you guys can make out and stuff ~ that would be hilarious! Just thought of that one too!
Pregnant Brittney and K-Fed.

beauty tips

Why do same-sex couples do not qualify for immigration benefits as heterosexual couples do?

Well, you are talking USA. In Europe you would find same sex couples DO qualify for immigration benefits as a married couple would. Consider that at least four EU nations (Spain, Belgium, the Netherlands and the UK) offer marriages or partnerships that are identical with marriage benefits.





It will take a while, I'd guess 5-10 years before the USA changes its tune. But it is going to happen. As more and more states permit gay marriage it will become less and less controversial. Then federal law will change as well.Why do same-sex couples do not qualify for immigration benefits as heterosexual couples do?
There is already rampant fraud regarding sham marriages for the sake of immigration, katie bar the door letting anyone just claim they are ';married';





There should be no special considerations for marriages to immigrants and then see how many happen - it's a joke - just look at Y!A and see how many are fraudulent -Why do same-sex couples do not qualify for immigration benefits as heterosexual couples do?
currently gay marriages aren't given many of the same rights as straight marriages.





Time will change this... but we will first have to see the day when it is legal throughout the us for two gay people to get married before we see them getting extra rights like immigration.
Bigotry. Federal law does not recognize same-sex couples as a result of DOMA (which, incidentally, Clinton signed), whether they be married abroad, or married or civil-unioned where permitted to do so in the United States. There you have it.
Because the government is an a-s-s that hates and wants to kill diversity.





In their eyes, gay people aren't worth as much as straight people.
Why should they? In America we only tolerate gays. It is not a federal government approved life style.
come to think of it they should...i mean it is a spouse..right?same rights as a hetero spouse...
It's because this country is full of bigots who couldn't care less about anyone rights besides their own.
We have not even tackled the issue of same sex civil unions vs. marriage...for the love of Pete...lets walk before we run.
Gay marrige isn't recognized by the federal government
because this world is retarded and we just live in it.
Because they're sinners.

Where is a nice strip club for couples?

A Gentlemans club to take my husband for our anniversary in Chicago Il and surrounding areaWhere is a nice strip club for couples?
Depends on what your looking for.





Admiral has a nice layout and its nude with good looking girls. They sometimes even have adult stars come through and put on a show. If your husband or you have any favs check out their calendar. http://www.admiralx.com They do offer a menu for some food like pizza and other quick food as well since this is listed under ';Dining out';





Bare Assets is horrible to go to. Its a peep show and very very dirty to the point its hard to breathe in the place.Where is a nice strip club for couples?
Post in CORRECT category!!!
Bare-Assets


(312) 559-9443


159 N Halsted St, Chicago, IL
polekats or diamonds gentleman's club
Philly, called the Picadally, Delilas, Cheerleaders