Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Why do couples fight for money?

couples fight mostly on money issues.





What would you advise to ease that kind of stress?Why do couples fight for money?
he, or she, who controls the purse, has the control, or wants it.





to ease it:





1 have the same financial goals


2 make major financial decisions together


3 budget for food, clothing, rent/mortgage, bills, entertainment, etc.


4 both might want to have a weekly allowance for your personal use


5 try not impulse buy


6 save for a major purchase





there is lots you can do, but you do have to listen to the other person's opinions to compromise and agree on money.


Why do couples fight for money?
Hate to say this, but there's usually no solution to this. People are the way they are with money. The key is to find somebody who has similar views as you have and hook up with that person. I've never heard of anybody changing their attitudes about money AFTER they get married. I'm guessing you did not pay attention to your spouse's money habits or did not care before you got married. And now you find yourself where you are. Did you guys discuss money before hooking up? Good luck.
Some couples fight all the time, same character traits





like the Punjabi's from India.





Normal couples may fight but the better option





is to compromise.





Maturity has a lot to do with it also.
communication about money all the time. budgets and agreements. and lots of conversations about plans and priorities.
Well I don't know, but I want to say tahth I hate this world... why we are always fighting for money: with our friends, parents, with ourselves.





Don't take care for money, lets live our lifes without thinking in money
Communication is the answer as is complete honesty.

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