When we go out...i notice that a lot of people take the time to stare.
I have noticed this and while it no longer makes me uncomfortable, i want a clever way to deal with it.
Most times staring back works as a deterrant, but i have seen some people roll their eyes and such...comical.
how would you handle it? How should interracial couples handle starring in public?
we usually just hold hands, depends on who notices the ';look'; that one will lean into the other one and whisper ';fool at 3o'clock''; and then we both laugh.
Being happy is NOT up to them, let them look as much as they like often they are just jealous that you do not have to deal with BS that they do with their sorry excuse for a man.
EDIT : thanks earthmum.......seems alot of other dont share my sense of humour do they lol lol, I laughed at your comment but could not say that comment with a straight face if my life depended on it........I would crack up laughing at the mmmmm partHow should interracial couples handle starring in public?
Like these other commenters are saying, don't care and show them something like a kiss to your guy that would piss them off more and both of you might have a good laugh.Ever saw the movie ';Save the Last Dance';?That's what those loving couple did and if you really love the guy,let those hating people stare until their eyeball fall out and enjoy your loving life.People need to rub the blurry out their eyes,this isn't the past anymore and deal with interracial couples.I wouldn't see both of you as an interacial couple,I'll see yoou both as everyday individual regular loving happy couple.
Hold your head up high and look as proud as you feel. If you feel up to it you can also smile and give them a wink. *Remember* they want you to feel uncomfortable - they want you to think that what you're doing isn't normal. So, don't give them what they want and pretend that all of their ugly stares are really smiles and waves -- trust me, it totally throws them off and they dont know what to do.
It's totally hilarious, and it will make them feel as stupid as they actually are.
Best Wishes.
not much you can do except ignore it. you may be paranoid, but some interracial couples do look plain awkward, especially wiht black women, which may be why they draw stares, but that doesn't necessairly mean everyone hates the fact that you are in an interracial relationship.
I stare back, or just act like i don't care what they think. my city has lots of ir couples so people don't really care anyway. Also i've been out with my man and we walk pass another ir couple usually they try and compare who's girl (or man) looks da best (i can read peoples thoughts.. cuz its written al over their face!) Or its kinda like.. so? Look who I got type of thing.
Kiss the other square on the lips, and if staring continues, say to starer (in funny British accent just for the laughs) ';Excuse me, but it is rude to stare. I know I am unbelievably sexy, but you should focus on your looks, not mine.';
The ones I see in Chicago all duck in shame/fear/fill in the blank. Personally, I don't think you should be in a relationship where you're not proud enough to stand tall in the general public -- interacial or not.
Just go about your business, they obvious have no life because they are interested in yours. Don't let it get you down. Be comfortable in your own skin and do what you and your significant other are comfortable with.
kiss your lover square on the lips with a loud smacking smooch,look in the direction of the stares, smile sweetly and say, 'Mmm, boy! that's some good loving!'
candy g, 'fool at 3 o'clock'....that's funny. i like it.
there is nothing you can do. interracial relationships is controversial. move on with your life and ignore those people. there are always going to be people who disagree with certain things.
Well if their staring at you, logically you must be staring at them?
Either simply get on with your life or remain in a conundrum of someone else's bigoted and dogmatic opinions.
Okay I'll tell you my secret. Walk around in the nude. Now I know what you're thinking, that sounds ridiculous, right? No! This is 100% idiot proof and guaranteed to work!
You should just ignore it. Let it fade into the background. Don't worry about it or it will consume you and hurt your relationship.
Ignore staring. Or, think of yourself as a celebrity. Celebrities have to put up with staring as well.
Start making out like animals for about 30 secs. Then stare at them afterwards with a wild look in your eyes.
...I just think that's hillarious.
As hard as it might be to resist the temptation to 'strike back', I'd just ignore them. They're the ones with the problem, not you.
by ignoring the people starring...or give them a smile..kill'em with kindness..them let them feel that they are intimidating you...(which is exactly what they want
Your just paranoid.
I would kiss to stick in their face! :D
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