How do you feel about it?Poll; How do you feel about gay couples adopting children?
Any child should have somebody who loves them regardless of their gender.Poll; How do you feel about gay couples adopting children?
If they are two mentally stable people who love children then yes it's great that they adopt.It should be their RIGHT to adopt also.
I've known many gay parents, some who adopted, some who used a surrogate or artificial insemination.
All the gay parents I have known were loving, nurturing, caring people with a lot to offer a child. Their children are happy, well-adjusted, healthy and grow up knowing they are loved unconditionally. What more needs to be said?
Every set of parents, whether gay or straight, needs to be evaluated on a case-by-case basis for adoption.
Every legitimate adoption agency does this, in fact, so you can assume that if two men or two women are approved as adoptive parents, then the child will be going to a new and loving home.
I think it's perfectly acceptable! There are so many children out there who need good homes! My best friend happens to be a gay man.. he and his life partner adopted a beautiful little girl 2 years ago, she's just as happy %26amp; healthy as she would have been with a heterosexual couple. I see absolutely nothing wrong with it.
and to Ku Klux Klown... so if an infertile couple decides to adopt is that wrong? they can't make their own children...
It is hard to say. It depends on the environment, culture and society. How well accept gay society in that environment. If the parents themselves are the type that hide in the closet or still cant accept the look that people gave, then it is not a good idea that they adopting the children.
But if the parents had been came out from the closet, then it is another issue. How about the adoption law apply in that area. Will it be allow for gay couple legally to adopt a children. ?
If all the law has been dealing , then I think it should be ok. as long as the parents can educate the children that they are different from other kids. The different is they have two father or two mothers. Dont lie to the kids that thsi uncle or this aunty is mom or dad best friend. Tell them, well educated them. eventually the kid will understand and be happily kid.
There is not guarantee that heterosexual couple or homosexual couple will have homosexual kids or straight kids .
But .. after all.. think it over . because it involves in another life happiness.
There's not a thing wrong with it whatsoever. I'm not sure my partner and I will ever adopt, but it would be nice if it were easier. Being gay or straight shouldn't necessarily give you an immediate advantage or disadvantage when it comes to adoption. It should be a question of whether or not a couple can provide a stable home and a loving, nurturing environment for kids. It really burns my @$$ that so many Bible-thumpers are out there screaming about how immoral it is for gay and lesbian couples to be allowed to adopt children. You never see THEM adopting any, and there are so many waiting for good homes with good parents...and so many who will never get to experience that.
What will the psychological effect on a child be?
How will that affect or help in the development of his/her personality?
You probably could but... i don't know. I don't think societies are ready for that, just not jet.
It would be very different for a child to grow up under that configuration.
No. it's not about what rights people has or what people can or can not do.
I think it's best not to subject a person to grow up in what till now is consider an abnormal situation.
I think it is okay if they are screened first like all parents should be. Not saying that all gay couples would make bad parents (my cousin's uncle and his boyfriend would make great parents), it is just that some my not be ';stable'; in the head. Something you should add is wheater people prefer two men or two WOMEN adopting and why or why not.
There are children who desperately need parents, anyone who is capable of being a good parent should be allowed to be one. Being gay doesn't automatically make a person a good or bad parent.
I, honestly, don't think it should even be an issue. As long as the two people (or even if it is a homosexual wanting to be a single parent) have a stable environment to provide to the child, it does not matter what their sexual preference is. Also, I think it's ridiculous to assume that just because a person is straight, that he or she is more ';normal'; than a homosexual. Watch the news for 5 minutes. Just yesterday, in my current town, we had yet ANOTHER preacher that stepped down because he was found guilty of abusing young girls. How is that normal? In the end, what makes us normal is our upbringing.. our parents providing us with unconditional love and understanding, and who's to say that only heterosexuals can provide that?
I think we have earvy right to adopt a kid
who needs someone to take care of tham
any one shold do this is long is they are good
nice and careing pople who are mean
bets lcok kids up shold not have kids but any
one ealse shold is long is they are careing
nice and loveing to tham than its fine
I agree. As long as the couple are in a long term stable relationship, and have their financial sh*t together, there's no reason why they shouldn't.
It's just a shame so many str8's have the idea the children will be molested or brought up as miniture gays. They seem to think the kids will be locked in a dungeon and become someones sex slave.
A stable gay couple are just as capable of raising a happy healthy %26amp; loved child, as well as any str8 couple.
KKK: There are many str8 couples who can't have kids either. Is that because they're evil rejects or something?
Your reasoning makes NO sense.
I think as long as they are in a stable relationship then they should definately adopt children.
A lot of the time same sex couples adopt difficult or hard to place children. They take on the challenge and end up with well adjusted children.
I AGREE W/ ';THAT GIRL'; maybe u should read the answer I gave to sum dude on here who said he didn't think being gay or gays adopting was acceptable.
I do feel that if people want to be raising a family and loving a child they should get the same privileges as a man %26amp; woman get.Look at some of the crazy families raising children these days!I totally agree with you sweetie!;)
i think that it is perfectly fine. were all equal to eachother no matter what race, ethnicity, or gender.
I feel that if a couple is stable, has a financially-secure househould, have been together for a decent amount of time, have no serious criminal record and are loving and willing to open their arms to a child, then I don't give a crap what sexuality they are, so long as the child is safe and loved.
i disagree on some of what you said. number one i think that gay couples should have the right to adopt children. there are too many kids out there unloved and homeless. so it doesn't matter if both parents have the same gender as long as there is love there that is great.
HOWEVER. i think there has to be a man on the scene. it's a must. i don't think that children having only only women or only men raising them can grow up completely well rounded.
children learn what they see. if they never get a chance to see how men and women interact on a daily bases. under there roof. well heck they will find it near impossible to grow and be in a hederosexual relationship. those relationships will always faulter coz the adult child finds it hard to relate.
that is why a lot of single moms with out the father helping out raise children who become out of wack in every shape of the word. they become male chouvonistic pigs and womanizers.women become hard core and not in tune with there femininity coz the women the child saw growing up with was acting like a man. so the female child will grow up acting like a man. when she does that there is no room for a man in her life when it's time to get married. coz she will think she can do it all. she will have this beliefe but then will find that hey why do i feel like it should be different. coz it IS suppose to different. both women and men need each other to raise a healthy family.
I have the same criteria whether the adoptors are gay or straight, that's the way it should be so that it's fair. Some of these include:
-they should show they can provide financially for the child
-they should not be alcoholics or drug users
-they should be of sound body and mind
-they have not had criminal offenses
-they should not be child molesters
As you can see, my critieria can apply irregardless of the parents' sexual orientation.
As it should be.
well i think it is fine. should be no problem if the kid is already up for adoption. but going out and having kids made from someones sperm is completely stupid in my opinion. im very open minded but there is only so far that my mind can be pushed and having a kid when you are a gay woman from some random guys sperm is just wrong. adoption is awesome but getting sperm implanted and having a new kid, out of the question.
I dont think it is fair. It can be awfull to the child. eg: School kids can tease, he/she can grow up thinking they can only like the same sex! I tihnk it is rong!
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