Sunday, January 17, 2010

Can married couples who fall out of love, fall back into love? If so, how?

I can't say that we have had a perfect marriage. However, I beleive that we have the perfect family. Over the past year both of us have dropped the ball on our relationship. Spending more time with the kid, going out with our friends rather than each other, ignoring each others request for attention...etc.Can married couples who fall out of love, fall back into love? If so, how?
Yes I believe you can fall back in love but it will take effort from both parties. You need to get a sitter and go out just the two of you make a date night every so often. Do things you both enjoy and find the reasons you fell in love with each other in the first place.Can married couples who fall out of love, fall back into love? If so, how?
Yes, you absolutely can. When you feel like you have fallen out of love with your spouse, that is where your commitment to the marriage should really kick in. This is where you start behaving as if you are in love. Treat each other the way you want to be treated. Listen to each others wants and desires and do what is in your power. Put the marriage first and above all else even the children. Start wooing and flirting with each other again.
I certainly believe you can and it takes work. Most of today society dont view a family as this way but I believe you should put your spouse before your children. Your children need to see you two as a solid rock to lean on. To see that you rely on each other over anything!





You said it yourself what is wrong, your not spending anytime together. Even if you don't feel like it right now tell yourself you want to and do it. Think about only positive things and push aside the negaitive. You have to work at it but that is what marriage is all about. No one ever said it was going to be easy but thats what makes it worth it!
If at least one of the partners is willing to work on things it is possible. When you are married, you know what it is your partner wants, rather you give it to them or not is another question.


Start doing the things you know he/she likes, you know the things you did for them to fall in love with you from the start.





****SWEET MILDRED WANTS YOU TO CRAWL INTO THE PLAYPEN WITH ME***
Mostly remembering that you are different people now than when you first were together. Relationships evolve, just wait it out. Happiness comes and goes. Dumping someone thinking that ';real'; joy is just around the corner is usually futile.
I totally agree!!!





IF you both want it, you'll have it!





Good luck!

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