What advice would you give to married couples to keep the marriage happy?

Remember it is both of you against the world.


When tough times come, sit on a couch, hold hands and face it together. Face the same direction, and meet your challenges head on.


When you challenge each other, remember you can either be happy or you can be right. Learn to listen. and find ways to give lots of flowers.


Delight in finding surprise. What makes you happy? Share that. Find an activity niether of you have done before, and make it your 'together' activity. Build a house together.


Have kids. Run out of money. Watch your children go off to college. Rock on the front porch, share the same denture glass.


Happiness is not a goal. It is the pursuit. Keep pursuing that fire that attracted you, keep it burning. You will never forget it, but you will be prone to take it for granted. So dont.


There will be names and games that no one else but you know. keep doing whatever you do to stay together, and in the words of W. Churchill, never, ever ever give up.What advice would you give to married couples to keep the marriage happy?
Communication is a word you hear thrown around on Oprah and Doctor Phil. It sounds corny but, if you're married, the first thing is to keep the communication lines open...in whatever way is best for you both...that can be anything...for me and my man, we make one day a week where we can say if we're not happy with something or just sort out relationship stuff. Because we do it at least once a week, a lot of times, we talk about stuff that makes us really happy. If I look back on ex-relationships, I can safely say they all ended because there was not enough communication, saying how you feel...and you will hear how your partner feels. It is all good


good luckWhat advice would you give to married couples to keep the marriage happy?
live apart (sorry just had a bad divorce still fighting with ex)
always say i luv u everyday and never sleep with another person oh and never ever push ur luck in the bed!!!
3 things a marriage needs to last:


1. Compassion/ Love


2. Patience


3. Trust
Well, if theres a disagreement than work it out kindly ( No yelling ) and if there is a fight with yelling and the women ends in ';FINE'; than the man should just shut up or its the beginning of a new argument. =]
Be unselfish and caring and love and treat each other the way that you would want them to love and treat you. Date once in a while and do things together just for fun. Holding hands is key and do not argue and fight. Communication is key too and honesty and mutual respect. Also going to marriage retreats and things like that are fun to. Do things together alot and make marriage you #1 priority in your life. Do not ever go to bed angry or upset with each other. Forgiveness of each others faults is key too. Also do not try changing you partner to be what you want them to be INSTEAD change yourself to be the partner that you need to be for them! Love each other for who they are not what they are on the outside. Work through hard times together and love each other no matter what! Unconditional love is very important and key! Admit when you are wrong and ask them to forgive you. God is to be the center of the marriage as well.





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Keep each other Happy...thats all
COMPROMISE AND THE ABILITY TO LAUGH TOGETHER!
get freaky spice it up ,roleplay ,bring home a friend for him or her watch dirty movies try somthing new
alcohol
Keep God involved in their marriage...a three-fold cord is stronger than a two-fold cord. Tell the other how much they mean to them. Keep things hot, but don't make sex everything. Stay romantic. Call the other during the day just to let them know you're thinking of them. Keep going out on dates...just because you're married doesn't mean you should stop the dates. Make sure you get romantic get-aways every once in a while...no calls to or from the office...just the two of you focusing on each other. Keep pictures of each other around...you'll be less likely to stray if you make sure they're on your mind all the time. Think about things the two of you said and did in the past that made the other happy. Make the other feel special. If there's a problem, talk it out with them. Don't belittle what the other says or does (even stay at home wives/husbands deserve respect...they clean the house, cook dinner, and make sure that the house is the way you like it). Always show affection...just a hand on the shoulder or back is good (or even an affectionate look)...skin-to-skin actually releases feel-good endorphines. Just a few suggestions.
You should keep a journal just one, between the two of you.





Each day write a little something in it. It can be anything from how your day was, to whats bothering you and so on and so forth.





Once you two believe there is an issue that needs to be addressed address it!





Good luck, stay happy!
keep the fights clean and the sex dirty!
Treat her like a queen, and she will treat you like a king....just give, give, give to each other.
Communication is key.
communication %26amp; great sex
1. Be happy and confident with yourself.


2. Comunicate no matter what.


3. Love without conditions


4. No nagging/nitpicking


5. Allow yourselves the freedom to be yourselves


6. Laugh a lot


7. Truly love and the trust will be a given


8. Have fun-life is too short to be too serious
laugh and always have fun!
try to keep ur spouse happy %26amp; think about what u do b4 u do it. don't let ur spouse get mad!