Can married couples handle abstinence or safe $ex?

Abstinence and outercourse (just opposite of !ntercourse) are one of the safest ways to avoid unwanted pregnancies and STDs. I know most women oppose their husbands who prefer safe $ex methods, such as condoms, outercourse, or abstinence. Vasectomies aren't always effective and can fail. I've heard it all before.





Can married couples handle abstinence and safe $ex (outercourse)? Why do women oppose their husbands using safe $ex methods?Can married couples handle abstinence or safe $ex?
i wouldn't be able to handle abstinence w/ my wife...she's WAY to hot for that.





i put up with condoms if i need to, but most of the time, she's on the pill so we're all good.Can married couples handle abstinence or safe $ex?
It's called monogamy and trust. Most couples know that safe sex is not necessary within a marriage because the couple SHOULD only be sleeping with each other. So why on earth would they practice these ';safe sex'; methods. If the goal is pregnancy prevention, then birth control pills, patches, shots are available. Also, condoms, tubal ligation, and vasectomies are options as well. They're not 100% effective but nothing ever is 100% effective. And, FYI, ';outercourse'; is not 100% effective either. Those sperm can easily swim in if some are near the genital area. Why get married if you can't trust your partner to be with you and only you and be monogamous? Why prevent against STDs at that point? That makes no sense...
What a bunch of garbage you have here. First of all, this is a highly personal decision made by the 2 people in the marriage and what other couples do is not any of your business. Second of all, many men oppose condoms, married or not. So, get over your need to blame women for whatever is wrong with you.
well i dont think a married couple would not want to have sex.. i mean they're married. and women refuse to have safe sex either because they want a child or just simply because it feels better without a condom..
why would a married couple abstain? and if the couple is monogamous and neither have STDs, there is no reason to practice safe sex unless trying to prevent pregnancy
Why would I get married and then not have sex with my husband?





And I think my husband would be just as displeased if we didn't have sex.





Besides, seeing as we're in a committed relationship, STDs are not a concern (I trust him, he trusts me.) and if we were to get pregnant, I trust that he would be a man and stick around to care for his child.
Isn't part of the FUN of being married having a regular chance to use UNSAFE sex methods safely?
societal pressures
If you are married to that person I don't think you should think about that. That's just me though.