Sunday, May 9, 2010

Do any of you couples do this?

My friend told me that she and her boyfriend talk about their plans in the future. Like, some of it is stuff like occupations, and how big they want their house, but sometimes they talk about the ';fun'; stuff they wanna do, like sex, and lingerie. They're 14, by the way. Is that a bad thing to do, or is that normal, as long as they don't do anything bad like that now?Do any of you couples do this?
Its Normal!!!


lol i know many many 14 year olds that act on it and they do that stuff all of the time (but its not good to act on it)Do any of you couples do this?
It IS a sign of a healthy and vibrant relationship with open communication. But at age 14 it is really just the basis for a nice daydream. The likelihood of the long term things coming to fruition for the ';couple'; doesn't seem very high. I would think talking about these things keeps the relationship feeling good it is just that it isn't good to live in a delusional world either. If they are talking about sex at 14 well, that is pretty serious. I would hope they get some counseling to make sure they don't end up in deep trouble.
The er ';fun'; stuff is a bit odd to talk about. The rest of the stuff is normal for older couples but 14 wow tis bit young to be talking that seriously. But they're in secondary school and those sort of relationships don't exactly last so maybe they're just at a loved up stage!





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Uhmm. Well theyre only 14 and they probably won't make it to the future, to be honest! I'm 17 and when and I talked about that when I was like 15 and now I look back an he's a nerd now and it's just embarrassing! Just live in the moment, hope I helped!

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