I've only been married six years but we do quite a few positions. I would say in one ';session'; we used at LEAST 2 positions; missionary then move on the doggie style. Over all we probably use about 6 positions that we play around with to make it different each time. For example: missionary style but with my legs crossed in front of me or up on his shoulders. The 6 positions that we switch up on a regular basis is, doggie style, missionary style (kicked up a notch), him laying behind me ';the spooning position';, sideways he's laying on his side diagonal to me, standing up in the shower, and me on top. These are the ones I guess I can say we use most often.How many positions do couples in a long term relationship use?
Yes we do. :)
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after 23 years i'm sure your wife and you have figured out what feels best and that why your not flippin this way and that. My husband and and I have only been married a year, but we have our usual sex then we also have romantic sex and then the hardcore sex. Each comes with different positions. I'd say for usual sex we use 2 different styles.
For us it depends on the situation. Most of the time it's your standard on or the other on top. But when not love making and just hard core f*cking, there is the doggy style, standing up, me lying down behind her.
We've tried them all, but we have our favorites. The situation dictates which to use and when.
When we make love it is pretty straight up with one position. When we have fun sex, we will try just about anything...always fun to experiment.
It varies. There's no set number....some couples use very few, some like to mix it up and have plenty of variety so things don't get in a rut.
I prefer variety in that area myself...although some are more pleasant/fun than others. ☺☻
In ';normal'; love making (in bed before we go to sleep) we use 3 also BUT different angles with each three. For example when my wife is on top sometimes she is leaning forward towards me other times she is leaning back with her hands on my knee/upper leg! SO is that two positions or just one? Then all the ';angles'; in between too! OH, then there is the ';reverse cowgirl'; is that still just the ';woman on top'; or is that a new one?
NOW there are the rare times (few times a year) that we might do ';different things'; and usually they are NOT in the bedroom!
Experimentation is always sexy.....
I mean, there are really only a few basic ones - most are just variations on what is probably 8 or so truly different positions, but we mix them up constantly and still horse around with new ones all the time. It's fun!
there's a movie called 101 sexual positions. my husband %26amp; I had started to try to use one of those positions each month. it makes for an awesome experience. that means for the next 101 months, you will have tried all of those positions. Try it. you might enjoy it.
We used(I am now divorced) every position imaginable, pretty much. I was married for a long time, and we always kept the desire to spice things up. I have favorites(doggy style, me on top, and him on top with my legs over his shoulders) but we experimented with everything in between, and also with toys. I can think of 9 positions that we used regularly, but there are probably more I'm forgetting. Our sex life was always awesome! We also had a video camera in the bedroom for these occasions.
We use as many as we can without hurting our backs. Lots of toys and flavored creams. We have great sex all of the time. And we make it fun. We are both in our late 40's.
me and my wife try to switch it up as often as possible.. i like it when shes on her back laying off the couch, me holding her legs up and you get the picture. just experiment. try taking pictures. my wife loves it. we always delete them afterwards. but it spices things up i guess
Sorry Rollie......Can't answer this one for you......haven't been in my current relationship for too long....
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