Should unmarried couples be allowed to sleep in the same bed?

Oh, I love this question! My husband and I lived together for about 6 months before we got married but we had been sleeping in the same bed for way longer than that. My parents would not let us stay together when we visited them until we got married, which was ridiculous!!! They were not preventing anything from happening that did not already happen and it was stupid. It is perfectly ok for an unmarried couple to sleep together, besides its not anyone else's choiceShould unmarried couples be allowed to sleep in the same bed?
It really depends on the couple. Not that I think there should ever be a rule, but as a personal choice, it does take some consideration.





You have to consider any responsibility or any possible consequences that may result. You have to be able to take that responsibility and make smart choices.





I know of a friend who sleeps with her boyfriend, they live together. But it's just sleeping really. She's pretty conservative, so she's waiting for marriage.





I don't see a problem with sleeping together at all. People should not concern themselves over this too much especially if it doesn't involve them personally (that's just silly).Should unmarried couples be allowed to sleep in the same bed?
allowed to? are you or someone else going to go door to door checking to see if every couple is married?





People can do what they want, its up to them if they sleep together or not, its not illegal.





Now if you are asking for religious reasons then that is between you and God
Allowed? We're talking about adults here, right?
I'd be screwed if i wasn't allowed to sleep in the ssame bed as my bf
Hebrews 13:4 States the following'; Let marriage be honorable among all, and the marriage bed be without defilement, for God will judge fornicators and adulterers';. So the answer if you have a conscience and love God is NO
That really depends upon the age of the couple and location of the bed.





I live with my fiance and we certainly sleep in the same bed. If we stayed at someone's home and they asked us not to, I would either find alternative accomodations or we would sleep separately.
In what context? Should they be allowed to move in together on their own in they so chose to and share a bed. Sure, it's their choice. Are they visiting someone who would rather they sleep in separate rooms in their home? Then they should respect their host or hostesses wishes and sleep in separate beds.
Yes. Who would enforce such a stupid law?
We're all adults here. We don't need to be ';allowed'; to do anything. Why shouldn't an unmarried couple be able to sleep in the same bed? Here we are in what is supposedly a ';free'; country, in the year 2008. What with war and famine and global warming and a burgeoning energy crisis, I think God probably has a little more to worry about than whether a couple in bed together is married.
if they love each other-i sleep with my boyfriend everynight and were not married.
I guess it on the why you are asking. Do i think teenagers should be able to sleep together no. Do i think unmarried couple who are over the age of 18 be able to sleep together yes. do i think that unmarried people who are stying in a relatives house for what ever reason should be able to sleep together if the person doesn't allow it no in that case you should respect the person for what ever there reason. My Fh and i have lived together for the last 2 years and shear a bed every night but his grandmother who's house we visited did not allow it we had to sleep in separate beds. Did it suck yep but we did it to respect her and her house.
i would say no. why this happen to a friend of mine.the pastor told them no sex before marriage.guess what she is pregnant and the guy is not going to marry her.i don't even know if he is suporting her.
Allowed? Especially if they are adults? Whose gonna spank them and tell them no....The Wedding/Marriage Police?





Where two consenting adults sleep, either alone or with someone..is NO ONE ELSE'S BUSINESS and if they try to make it their business then they need to get a life.
We slept in the same bed and cuddled. We just didn't have sex until we were married.
This would have to be up to their own conscience...I can't imagine the marriage police going around into people's bedrooms doing a license check.
Why not? Even if you are worried about preserving virginity until marriage, sharing a bed does not have to mean you're having sex or even fooling around.
';Allowed';? By whom? Presumably these are adults that you're talking about, who are well able to make their own decisions. It's nobody else's business who's in the bed.
Personal Choice. Unless you are staying at someone elses house, then I think its best to respect thier wishes and rules.
No, I don't think it's right. I think you should be married first. When my boyfriend and I moved in together, we had 2 bedrooms just for face. 3 moves later, we are in a small 2 bdrm, and only 1 is set up as a bedroom. We're getting married in May, but we were lucky it worked out for us. I think moving in together before marriage really puts the two people in a place that is HARD to get out of.
No. Specially not if they are underage.
I say it is immoral....though i have done it, and now as i am older, it makes me disgusted with myself. I say no. Though our children have done it in our home, and i hated it...But i know this generation has no conscience and they feel no shame, as i do with myself.